Color Therapy

Posted by daony | Romance | Tuesday 2 March 2010 2:25 am

flowers     Colors have different meanings and just looking at them triggers the production of hormones in our bodies, whether to calm us and relax us, bring us energy, boost our creativity, help us sleep, relieve our pain, or reduce our anxiety.

How can you make colors work for you? Try to put that color where you can see it all the time, most probably as elements of the decors of your home.

Here is a list of colors and the qualities associated with them:

Red:  strength, perseverance, passion, leadership. Red stimulates the appetite.

Orange:  freedom, enthusiasm, charm, gregariousness. Orange is a social color and makes people feel welcome.

Yellow: humor, open-mindedness, imagination, originality. Yellow is the color of creativity and communication.

Green: harmony, balance, generosity, kindness. Green evokes images of prosperity.

Blue: tranquility, intelligence, honesty, spirituality. Calmness, coolness and rest are always associated with blue.

Indigo: perception, purity, intuition, receptiveness. Indigo helps the mind enter a meditative state.

Violet: creativity, enigma, mystery, power. Violet, like yellow, also helps the mind be creative.

***Color your world and be transformed and healed***

Sexy Valentine’s Day lingerie

Posted by admin | Fashion, Relationship, Romance | Wednesday 10 February 2010 4:06 am

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It’s something that isn’t really talked about, but we know it’s true. There’s lingerie for every aspect of your life and phase of your relationships. After all, the lingerie you wear at the start of a love affair isn’t necessarily going to be what you wear when you’ve been together for five years and have a baby. And who hasn’t devoted a section of their underwear drawer to first-time-with-a-new-guy bra and panty sets?

We consulted with Jennifer Carroll, co-author of the new book, Underneath It All: A Girl’s Guide to Buying, Wearing, and Loving Lingerie ($11.16, Harlequin), to come up with a guide to lingerie that matches your relationship status. Whether you’re single, seriously involved or happily married, here are your options:

Single and Not Seeing Anyone Right Now
So what if no one else will see your underwear? “Dress for the love life you want, not the one you’ve got,” advises Carroll. Here are some simple pieces that you can wear on a solo night at home to make you feel more sensual and in touch with your feminine side without feeling ridiculous. Looks like this will give you an extra boost of confidence, “just in case you meet Mr. Right,” says Carroll.

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From left: Jenna Leigh Maroma Deep Red Nightie ($125, jennaleighlingerie.com). Alfani Chemise, Back to Basics Modal ($7.99, macys.com). Kimchi Blue Polka Dot Slip ($48, urbanoutfitters.com)

Single and Dating
When you’re dating but not fully committed to someone, it’s a good idea to keep the more complicated items safe in your naughty drawer until things start getting serious. For the time being, stick with classy yet sexy separates. “Make sure your bra and panties match,” says Carroll. “Your date will appreciate the effort!” And in these styles, he’ll want to stick around to see what else you’ve got in your repertoire.

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From left: Striped Ruffle Bra ($7, charlotterusse.com) and Polkadot Two-Tone Ruffle Boyshort Panties ($3.50, charlotterusse.com). Felina: Harlow Full Busted Demi Bra ($32, barenecessities.com) and Felina: Harlow Low Rise G-String ($14, barenecessities.com). Flirty Lace Balconette Bra in pink ($24, express.com)  and Flirty Lace String Thong in pink ($12.50, express.com)

In a Relationship
Now that you’ve found someone, it’s time to up the ante. If you’re in a relatively new relationship, don’t bother with complicated closures and ties because your guy won’t wait long enough to delicately take these pieces off of you. Instead, stick with pieces that are hotter than your average bra and panty set, but are just as easy to remove. Carroll likes the simple addition of a garter belt and stockings, too. “Add them to any bra and panty set to heat things up on date night,” she says.

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From left: Brazilian Lace & Mesh Flyaway Babydoll ($32, fredericks.com). Leopard Babydoll Set ($21.95, yandy.com). Cut-Out Halter Babydoll ($35, victoriassecret.com)

Engaged
He proposed! Or you proposed! Either way, now’s the time to show your fiancé what he’s committed to for the rest of his life – and that’s you in all your sexy glory. Carroll says, “Engage him with the promise of things to come in bustiers, corsets and thigh-highs.” He will instantly know he’s made the right choice when he sees you in one of these scandalous little numbers.

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From left: Love Red Love Basque ($370, agentprovocateur.com). Reversible Satin Corset with Dot Net Ruffle ($49.90, lingeriediva.com). Lace Garter Set ($42.99, yumdrop.com)

Married or Living Together
Sure, the honeymoon may be over, but that doesn’t mean you should retire your collection of negligees. The bedroom only gets boring if you let it, says Carroll. “Ditch the fun run T-shirt for sleeping and go for a silky chemise or gown. Also, invest in some lacy, racy bras and a fantasy outfit — like a naughty maid — for dress-up!”

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From left: Farr West Lace Trim Full Slip ($80, nordstrom.com). Tickle Me Maid ($39.95, 3wishes.com). Gilda and Pearl Garbo Underwired Demi Bra ($43, figleaves.com)

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Birthstone Jewel

Posted by daony | Jewelry Wholesale, Relationship, Romance | Tuesday 9 February 2010 5:43 am

 

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January’s Birthstone: Garnet

    Garnet is a remarkable gemstone, in that it is found in all colors except blue. The best known garnet is a deep red colored stone.
Legend holds that garnet protects travelers against accidents, and protects its owner from nightmares. It is also dubbed the gem of faith, constancy and truth.
    Garnet is the accepted birthstone for the month of January. It is also the accepted anniversary gemstone for the 2nd year of marriage.

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February’s Birthstone: Amethyst

    Considered the gem of royalty, amethyst ranges in color from pale lilac to nearly black purple. The deep medium purple with rose colored flashes are the most valuable.
    Legend holds that amethysts were able to dissipate evil thoughts and quicken the intelligence. They are also a symbol of sobriety, peace and tranquility.
    Amethyst is the recognized birthstone for February, and the accepted anniversary gemstone for the 6th year of marriage.

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March’s Birthstone: Aquamarine

    Aquamarine ranges in color from pale to medium blue, sometimes with a slight hint of green. The ideal color of aquamarine is a refreshing sea blue – not too pale or too green. It is a member of the beryl family, which also includes emerald.
    Aquamarine is the traditional birthstone for the month of March. It is also the accepted anniversary gem for the 19th year of marriage.

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April’s Birthstone: Diamond

    Although diamonds are associated with being clear or colorless gemstones, they are occasionally found with a strong bright color – green, red, pink, blue, canary yellow and amber. These “fancy colored diamonds” are highly prized.
    Traditionally, the diamond is the accepted birthstone for the month of April. It is also the accepted anniversary gemstone for the 10th and 60th years of marriage.

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May’s Birthstone: Emerald

    Emerald is one of the most highly prized of all the gems. The more vivid the green, the more valuable the emerald. Most emeralds have internal inclusions, or flaws, and are thus treated with fillers to mask the cracks and enhance the stone’s brilliance. When purchasing an emerald, you should make sure that fissures and inclusions do not go too deep into the stone, so that it would be weakened enough to break if it were hit accidentally.
    Emerald is the accepted birthstone for the month of May, and the accepted anniversary gemstone for the 20th and 35th years of marriage.

Alexandrite

June’s Birthstone:  Alexandrite

    Alexandrite is one of the most fascinating gemstones throughout history. It actually changes color from green in daylight, to red in incandescent light.    
     Alexandrite has a distinguished and glamorous past. It was discovered in 1830 in czarist Russia, and was named after Czar Alexander II, on the occasion of his coming of age.
    Alexandrite is an excellent stone to wear everyday because it is very hard. It is one of the accepted birthstones for the month of June, and the accepted anniversary gemstone for the 55th year of marriage.

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July’s Birthstone: Ruby

    Ruby has been the world’s most valued gemstone for thousands of years. In fact, rubies today are still more valuable and rare than even the top quality colorless diamond. Ruby, like sapphire, is a variety of corundum, and only exists as a true red in color.
    In ancient times, the highest quality rubies were said to protect their owners from all kinds of misfortune. A fine ruby assured the owner he would live in harmony with his neighbors. It would protect his stature in life, his home and his land. It’s protective powers were intensified when set in jewelry, and worn on the left side.
    Ruby is the accepted birthstone for the month of July. It is also the accepted anniversary gemstone for the 15th and 40th years of marriage.

Peridot

Augusts’ Birthstone: Peridot

    Peridot is one of the few stones found in only one color- bright, light green. The shade of green can vary from a light yellowish green to an olive brownish color.
    In ancient times, it was believed that peridot had the power to drive away all evil, creating a state of restfulness for its wearer. That power was considered to be even more intense when the stone was set in gold. Peridot was also thought to bestow wisdom and courage.
    Peridot is the accepted birthstone for the month of August. It is also the accepted anniversary gemstone for the 16th year of marriage.

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September’s Birthstone: Sapphire

    Sapphire comes in all colors except red (the red variety being known as ruby), but is especially popular in deep blue. the other colors of sapphire can be just as beautiful and rare, or even rarer, than the blue but they are usually priced less because of lower demand. Yellow, orange, lavender and other pastel shades are especially affordable.
    Ancient priests and sorcerers honored sapphire above all gems, for this stone enabled them to foretell the future. Marriage partners put great faith in the stone. If its luster dimmed, one knew his or her spouse had been unfaithful. According to legend, sapphire refused to shine when worn by the wicked or impure.
    Sapphire is the traditional birthstone for the month of September. It is also the accepted anniversary gemstone for the 5th and 45th years of marriage.

Opal

October’s Birthstone: Opal

    Opals are flashy stones that capture the colors of the rainbow deep within themselves. There are many different varieties and colors of opals, like dark or black opals, white or light opals, milk or crystal opals, mexican or fire opals. Within each of those varieties, the brilliance of the “play of color” is the most important factor in determining its value. Black opal has the most brilliant colors and is the most valuable. The milky white opal is the better recognized and most affordable type of opal because the play of colors is more diffused.
    Opal has symbolized hope, innocence and purity through the ages. In the Middle Ages, opal was considered a stone that could provide great luck because it was believed to possess all the virtues of each gemstone whose color was represented within the opal.

Citrine

November’s Birthstone: Citrine

    Known for it’s bright and sunny golden glow, shades of citrine will range from yellow, to gold, to orange brown. Most citrines on the market today start their lives as amethysts, and are then heated to turn their color to a permanent bright yellow.
    Citrine is one of the accepted birthstones for the month of November, as well as the accepted anniversary gemstone for the 13th year of marriage.

Tanzanite

December’s Birthstone: Tanzanite

    Tanzanite is recognized for its vivid blue/purple color. Shades of purple range from pale lilac to deep intense violet blue. When tanzanite is found in the ground, a bronze color dominates. It is only when heated that the violet/blue color we all know comes out.
    Tanzanite is was named after its country of origin by Tiffany & Co in New York, who also introduced the gemstone to the world market in 1969. Coming from only one location, tanzanite is a rare gem – even rarer than diamond – and supply is limited compared to many other gemstones. Owning a piece of jewelry set with this unusual gemstone truly makes its owner feel unique and special.

Valentine ’s day – For everyone you love

Posted by admin | Relationship, Romance, Silver Jewelry | Monday 8 February 2010 1:51 am

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10 sleep poses told your love’s life.

Posted by daony | Relationship, Romance | Monday 18 January 2010 5:35 am

     The love story is between two people. It’s a life partner. Some partners are loving and happy hopes fulfilled.

     But some partners together with the fall. Today, we love to see you how refreshing and happy you are…

     The view from the “sleep activities” which are activities that couples together the longest time. To see what kind of you and your lover.

     1. Fork & Spoon Poses

     A real happiness of your life. Which represents the squire’s your man. Shown that is your comfortable. Make couples closer together. Indicate a good time with your man take care of you feel. As you enter your spouse together in the first 3-5 years of marriage. 

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     2. Honey Moon Sweet Poses     This is the real happiness of the couple. Both you and happy couples sleeping together facing one another soulfully. You may enter a sick players for both you and your sweetheart, but the patient is in bed for demonstrating. Love you both with each other. A period that sweet snap of wedlock during the first begin Loria Moon suites. Know that now. You and your sweetheart could not sleep this situation together. To try to return to sleep situation is with each other it is tinged love life is not bad ever.

 

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     3. Snuggle Poses     The man is facing tilt to sleep and you lie facing each tilt. Found in the initial period of marriage, although not as sweet snap that other portals. However, indicate that care to protect man to offer you. While there is freedom in your own thoughts and decisions can have in life that you want.

 

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     4. My Sweet Heart Poses

     You are fortunate to not be alone in the world. This world is happy with the love of two people. This one like Snuggle Poses but you and him more closely. Warmth of touch adjacent sent through closer together. You will be protected as well.

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     A woman, 35, one story was that during her ill treatment of breast cancer that she felt disappointment, but her husband is waiting inside and she always encouraged by his hand and soothe her with a hug and sexual situation. This makes her feel good, encouraged to continue to fight.

     Although you can not sustain itself smack in the bed throughout the night but sleep and a good morning when you awake before you begin to burn. Both you and your sweetheart should return to bed clinch at least in this situation is instead set many words you want to say that love him or love her.

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5. Lean forward 1 (Your Turn)

This poses indicates the body of your relatively good. You are very confident in themselves are relatively high and couples parties guide your life. Man is concerned about care of your oily look. And perhaps you could allow a person holding purse to was a fortunate of you.

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     6. Have a Break Poses

     Your love life is not that sweet but not trite snap. Your relationships and couples are intimately well. Sometimes you may feel that you have good friends over. Both you and him are disclosed together. But both you and him are the same planet. Couples that love each other this long, although it is not noticeable any more.

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     7. Lean forward 2 (His Turn)

     Your love life may be sweet but not much interruption. Couples have your personal world. Always look on something you do to those annoying, such as restaurants like the beauty of your couples tend to focus more work and sometimes you usually do not have time for you but you love your sweetheart and care more. The fix is your understanding and restraint your mind.

 

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     8. Questions Poses (Have Problem)

     May be time to ask that question. “You still love him?, He still love you?” You and him may disagree or argue with each other about the nonsensical. A difficult time if both are the personal world. The simple fix you. “Change youy sleep poses “.

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     9. Your Way My Way Poses

     You and they sleep the same bed, but hearts are not all the same bed together. You are your world, while he himself is his world, both you and your partner may be married, but the mesh is seen your comment and not understanding him out. May be the proper time to talk. At least they should remember the good times of family life.

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     10. The Cliff Hanger Poses

     This image would not say much. May be last night both of you might drink too much!!!!

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Lovely meaning of flowers.

Posted by daony | Relationship, Romance | Wednesday 13 January 2010 7:17 am

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-Orchid: Informant loves that. “I could not be forbidden to miss her.
-Jasmine: Chaste and gentle instead of meaning “she is the best I love most hallowed” or “high-class woman who is her elegance and respectability.
-Lilly: Instead of pure love mellow sensitive world. “She is my first love”.

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Tulip: A headlong fall in love means. Love and temporarily reduce rapidly.

- Various colors Tulip in the same bouquet means. “Her beautiful eyes, makes me very mad.”
- Red Tulip “like the world to know that I love her.”
- Yellow Tulip “I am disappointed in love.”

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Rose

-Pink Roses means elegance and urbanity.
-Yellow roses. “Please let me to be your paramour” “We adulterous spiritual” and means happy or cheer.
      -Orange roses to tell their brave and love is in the past.

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-Red and white roses together in one bouquet. Meaning to know. “We are unified.”
-White roses say “I love her with a pure heart. Do not expect anything return “.

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-Dark red roses (colors like red wine) instead of the word, “she is exceedingly beautiful.”
-Single Rose instead of meaning. “Although I love simplicity. But stability alone with her.

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-Roses and leaves are budding and spine tells you that, “Although I will address some concerns. But know that she would not decline. ”
-Hybrid Roses blast that leaves left out. Shows that providers are all not be all things to be afraid.
-Hybrid Roses blast that left no burr. Demonstrated a very promising filled.
-Young red roses. Demonstrated that naive love. “I just love the girl. And naive “.
-Young white roses. Represents a captivating charm. Naive about love.

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-Roses bloom of flowers and roses 2 blast not want that, “This is love that I hide it.”
-Blooming red roses tell you that “I love her to then”.
-Red roses and wax. He would let you know. “Our love was finished”.
-White roses instead of the wax and then the meaning “to charm her, and then reduce it”.
-Thornless roses to know that “she never lost the charm should flow even watch first.”

WARNING! Men are strictly prohibited from trying to understand this CODE.

Posted by Richard | Gossip, Relationship, Romance | Monday 21 December 2009 4:12 am

WARNING! Men are strictly prohibited from trying to understand this CODE.

Step 1. First, the “bend and snap” – a broken nose is the best way to get closer. If it’s not love at first sight and the catchiest snap, then go to

Step 2. Money. When he invites you to a restaurant tell him that you’ve got fascinating earrings and haven’t got a necklace to put on with an absolutely stunning dress you found in Vogue but haven’t, by the way, bought yet. He will buy them both while he’s in love. And afterwards, when he wakes out of the trance, he will count how much money he’s invested in you and will have a fierce desire to legalize his investment by marrying you. If it’s not enough for his liberality, go to

Step 3. Jealousy. Use the men’s primitive mentality, “If somebody else’s interested, then I’m interested, too. If nobody is interested, then this woman/girl is not worth even looking at.” So, show him that there are at least two more candidates thirsty for your hand/body/love/benevolent glance. Send a bouquet of flowers with a card for yourself and tell him that you are tired of this admirer. If he appears too depressed by your non-existent caballero, go to

Step 4. Food. What is the single’s “every day’s special”? It’s coffee at work and gherkins at home. That is why they are easily baited with good home-cooked food. Which does not necessarily mean that you will spend the rest of your life cooking for him. Let’s say till you get married, that’ll do. Most cases end up in marriages after a satisfying dinner, but if it’s not enough, especially if the man lives with his mother, press him next, and go to

Step 5. Hysterics. From time to time go into hysterics making pauses to become a really nice bunny. Such unpredictable behavior stimulates and interests men. If he still resists, and you do not break up, carry heavy metal – go to

Step 6. Lewinsky’s trick. But do it for a marriage not for publicity. If he doesn’t kill you, he will marry you. If not, and you are still alive, then go to

Step 7. Pregnancy. Pretend that you are pregnant (and you’d better obtain real pregnancy after a marriage just in case your man appears to be a nasty bastard). Oh, don’t worry about your little cheat. He won’t check anything (at least if he does, there’s always the way out to say, “Oops! False alarm!”). But still the former is more likely just because male’s brain is adjusted to stop working once the ears hear the words, “I’m pregnant”. And a sudden fear/euphoria literally enforces a man to make a proposal. So, if he believes you he will marry you.

And finally, if you get through to the seventh step and at last he asks you to marry him, think, whether you really want to marry this manipulated by a woman, wasteful and depressed mamma’s darling with a broken nose! So, do not take this algorithm seriously.

10 Signs It’s a Bad Engagement Ring …

Posted by pim | Relationship, Romance | Thursday 5 November 2009 2:33 am

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Sign 1

The old method of testing a diamond on a mirror to see if it leaves a scratch isn’t as reliable as people think. Many fake diamonds will also scratch the surface so it isn’t accurate. It may also damage your precious stone so it’s not recommended. A better way is to fog the stone with your breath, the genuine article will clear immediately but if it’s stays foggy it’s fake. A real diamond can disperse the heat by the time you look at it. Unfortunately this method isn’t completely reliable though, as if there is any oil or dirt on the stone it doesn’t give a clear indication. Also, it won’t work on a stone that is a doublet – were the top of the stone is diamond and the bottom half is cubic zirconia.

Sign 2

Does your ring feel light or are you fingers getting a work out under this new adornment? If you can get hold of a carat or gram scale, the noticeable difference in weight will shed light on the situation. Cubic Zirconia, which is the most popular imitation, weighs 55% more than a diamond so let’s hope you’re not feeling heavy handed!

Sign 3

Most diamonds turn fluorescent blue when examined under ultra violet light. So if your ring turns blue then you know you it’s the real thing. However, you should hope for a light shade of blue, as a more intense blue indicates less value.

Sign 4

If you have good eyesight and a strong magnifying glass there are some signs that will give away your diamond’s true identity! Study the cuts on the top of the diamond to see how well they are joined. If it’s not an impersonator, they should appear sharp.

Sign 5

No one is perfect and real diamonds aren’t either. Under the microscope, check if there are any flaws such as cracks or pinpoints. These are a sure sign it’s the real thing as it is impossible to imitate this.

Sign 6

If your ring doesn’t carry a stamp you may be worried about if it’s genuine. However, don’t panic as if it has been repaired, resized or well worn the stamp may not be visible. If it does have a stamp of “10K, 14K, 18K, 585, 750, 900, 950, PT, Plat” that indicates the setting is real gold or platinum. This means there is a good chance that the stone is real too. However if you see a ‘CZ’ stamp it means the centre of the stone is not a diamond.

Sign 7

If in doubt, the best way to verify is to take your ring to a reputable jeweller for a reliable assessment, but there are some ways you can check at home. Apply liquid foundation and a layer of powder to the back of your hand and then rub your ring against it. If you see a dark or black mark this means it is likely your ring is real. If nothing happens, it is likely to be fake.

Sign 8

If you are worried your gold ring isn’t the real thing, drop it in a just of water and see what happens. Gold is heavy and should sink straight to the bottom, if your ring can swim it may not be the Olympic gold you had hoped for.

Sign 9

Does the colour of your ring disappoint you? Why does it seem less vibrant than you had imagined? The colour of the gold is a good indication to the quality. Gold of 22k or 24k will appear brilliant, bright yellow, 18k is a strong yellow, 14k is less and 9k is quite pale. If you ring doesn’t shine like the sun, it may just be a dead ringer for the real thing.

Sign 10

The last and most obvious sign is the dreaded telltale mark left on your finger. This is a sure and sorry sign that it’s fool’s gold.

How To Improve Your Relationship

Posted by pim | Relationship, Romance | Wednesday 4 November 2009 5:26 am

Improve_relationshipLike many of us, you probably ask yourself from time to time how to improve your relationship. The reason might be that you feel that your existing relationship is not as exciting as it used to be, or is less satisfying then before.

Well, whatever the reason for trying to improve your relationship might be, there are many ways that you can improve your relationship. Here is a short list of a few ideas that you might want to try out:

•    Allocate proper time for communication with your partner. Preferably, try and have a regular, fixed time during which you talk things out, openly and freely. You should avoid at all costs keeping quiet about things, or refraining from talking them through.

•    Always try to put yourself in your partner’s shoes. Try and imagine how they feel, how they look at things from their perspective. This will enable a more efficient conversation and will facilitate finding a mutually acceptable solution.

•    Even if you are working around the clock, allocate a little quality time for you and your partner. A good idea might be having breakfast together, or sipping tea before going to bed. This will provide a good opportunity to regularly talk things out. This would also make sure that your partner will feel that you give him proper attention.

•    Think before you speak. Even if you are angry, try and count until 5, and only then speak. You will be amazed to see how a more relaxed tone does the job of getting the message across.

Betrayed by Trust

Posted by pim | Relationship, Romance | Monday 26 October 2009 6:38 am

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Trust....

You loved him with your entire being. You gave him your heart and soul.
He was the bright light of your day and the peaceful darkness of your night.
Every thought you possessed started and ended with him and your love for him.
Your trust in him was given without question.

You are then confronted with one of the worst breaches a heart can survive.
He gave his heart to another.
He cherished and shared private moments with another.
He left you with nothing but a broken heart.
Your love has been violated, leaving you feeling betrayed by your own trust.

But then….
He wants you back.
He cannot live without you.
He has crawled back to you, begging for forgiveness.
Begging for your heart to be returned.
Begging for your trust once again.

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Does he not know what he has done to you through his choice of actions?
How does one forgive?
How does one forget?
Most of all …how does one trust again after such a betrayal?

Betrayal has a way of stealing your smiles and laughter.
It will leave you feeling that it was your trust that put you in this position.
Another very self destructing emotion that betrayal will cause is self-blame.
It has a way of turning your love into pure hate.
It will make you feel like you have no place to run and hide.
It will make you want to go to sleep and never wake up.
Betrayal takes any faith in life that you had and crushes it into pieces of ash that will eventually blow away.

It is a very silent and destructive emotion. To feel betrayed is unlike anything you could ever imagine…the feeling of a betrayal is for many inconceivable until it happens.
It will hit you with such a force that your mind will feel like it has been through a storm of shattered glass.

Betrayal is a form of abuse, one that is rarely spoken about, because once betrayal has stormed through a person’s life, it leaves nothing behind but a wilted, speechless form of a human being.
The victim is so overwhelmed with grief that they choose not to live or breathe ever again, thus leaving an empty silhouette in the place of what was once a full, loving and trusting soul. The result being, that there is no evidence or explanation of the abuse.

So now what?
Now he wants forgiveness and a return of what was once given freely and innocently.
Can and how does one overcome the trauma and the shock of being betrayed?
Yes, one can overcome and move past a betrayal.

There must first be a cleansing of ones mind.
Your mind must shed all of the hatred, the hurt, the shame, the self-blame even the feeling of a much needed revenge that was experienced from the betrayal.
Your cleansing will be as traumatic as the betrayal in many ways. It may even alter the final outcome of your decision in the end. Either way it is the key to your being able to move forward in your heart and mind.
He needs to know that what his betrayal has done to your ability to trust and love him.

You need to know and accept that you were not responsible for his actions. His actions had nothing to do with who you are.
He also needs to understand that his patience will be in demand.
Your ability to overcome the betrayal and to find trust again will depend on your cleansing.

Then you must commit to starting a new chapter in your relationship.
You must close the old chapter and move forward.
The words from the old chapter cannot ever be rewritten in any form. In saying that, there can be no repeating of betrayal by him or any words of his betrayal by you.
Rehashing anything from the old chapter is and will be destructive to your present relationship.
It happened…you chose to forgive him..it is over.
That battle cannot and should not ever be fought again.

This is where his desire to earn your trust will be vital.
He will need to secure a foundation so you can begin to rebuild your trust in him.
You must also realize that in your choice of forgiveness, you must commit to letting go.

Through each day, new memories will have to be made and this will take time, but your love and your trust are so worth it.

This is a very important fact..if you cannot forgive him then you had better forget him!

Relationships are built with a continuous effort by both partners towards a positive and healthy life together.

20+ Greatest Romantic Movie Quotes …

Posted by pim | Romance | Friday 23 October 2009 5:16 am
Love Quotes

Love Quotes

There are so many beautiful lines out there from really romantic movies. Sometimes, I like to include a romantic little quote in a card or love note for my sweetie. Here are my top twenty romantic movie quotes.

1. City of Angels

“I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss from her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it.”

2. Don Juan Demarco

“Have you never met a woman who inspires you to love? Until your every sense is filled with her? You inhale her. You taste her. You see your unborn children in her eyes and know that your heart has at last found a home. Your life begins with her, and without her it must surely end.”

3. West Side Story

“Make of our hands one hand. Make of our hearts one heart. Make of our vows one last vow. Only death will part us now.”

4. The Bridges of Madison County

“It seems right now that all I’ve ever done in my life is making my way here to you.”

5. The Notebook

“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds and that’s what you’ve given me.”

6. Dirty Dancing

“I’m scared of walking out of this room and never feeling the rest of my whole life the way I feel when I’m with you”

7. Lord of the Rings

“I would rather share one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.”

8. The Princess Bride

“Death cannot stop true love. All it can do is delaying it for a while.”

9. Casablanca

“We’ll always have Paris.”

10. A Beautiful Mind

“Perhaps it is good to have a beautiful mind, but an even greater gift is to discover a beautiful heart.”

11. As Good As It Gets

“You make me want to be a better man.”

12. A Knight’s Tale

“If I could ask God one thing, it would be to stop the moon. Stop the moon and make this night and your beauty last forever.”

13. Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

“I want to tell you with my last breath that I have always loved you.”

14. Sleepless in Seattle

“Well, it was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up, they meant we were suppose to be together… and I knew it. I knew it the very first time I touched her. It was like coming home… only to no home I’d ever known… I was just taking her hand to help her out of a car and I knew. It was like… magic.”

15. Gone with the Wind

“You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how.”

16. The English Patient

“I promise I’ll come back for you. I promise I’ll never leave you.”

17. Jerry Maguire

“I love him and I don’t care what you think. I love him for the man he wants to be and I love him for the man he almost is.”

18. Good Will Hunting

“It doesn’t matter if the guy is perfect or the girl is perfect, as long as they are perfect for each other.”

19. Dracula

“I have crossed oceans of time to find you.”

20. Love Story

“Love means never having to say you’re sorry.”

Awww, aren’t those beautiful? I just love romantic movie lines. Do you have more favorite movie love quotes that I missed? Post them in the Comments section below if you do!

The meaning of love….

Posted by daony | Relationship, Romance | Thursday 22 October 2009 7:35 am

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     Since a very long time ago, people have searched for the meaning of love. But even the great philosophers, with their profound definitions, could not fully touch its true essence. In a survey of 4-8 year olds, kids share their views on love. But what do little kids know about love? Read on and be surprised that despite their young and innocent minds, kids already have a simple but deep grasp of that four-letter word. 

     “Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way.”

     “When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.”

      ”When someone loves you, the way she says your name is different. You know that your name is safe in her mouth.” “Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.”

     “Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your french fries without making them give you any of theirs.”

     “Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don’t yell at him because you know it would hurt his feelings.”

     ”Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”

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     “Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”

     “Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My mommy and daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss but they look happy and sometimes they dance in the kitchen while kissing.”

     “Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.”

     “If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.” “Love is hugging. Love is kissing. Love is saying no.”

     “When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you’re scared she won’t love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only does she still love you, she loves you even more.”

     “There are 2 kinds of love. Our love. God’s love. But God makes both kinds of them.” “Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.”

      ”Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they’ve know each other so well.”

     “During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.”

     “Love is-if you hold hands and sit beside each other in the cafeteria. That means you’re in love. Otherwise, you can sit across from each other and be okay.” “My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.”

     “Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken.”

     “Don’t feel so bad if you don’t have a boyfriend. There’s lots of stuff you can do without one.”

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      ”Love is when mommy sees daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.”

     “If you want somebody to love you, then just be yourself. Some people try to act like somebody else, somebody the boy likes better. I think the boy isn’t being very good if he does this to you and you should just find a nicer boy.”

     “Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day” “When you’re born and see your mommy for the first time. “Love is what makes people hide in the dark corners of movie theaters.”

      ”Love goes on even when you stop breathing and you pick up where you left off when you reach heaven.”

     “My enemies taught me how to love.”

     “I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.”

      ”You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.”

     “You have to fall in love before you get married. Then when you’re married, you just sit around and read books together.”

      ”I let my big sister pick on me because my Mom says she only picks on me because she loves me. So I pick on my baby sister because I love her.”

      ”Love cards like Valentine’s cards say stuff on them that we’d like to say ourselves, but we wouldn’t be caught dead saying.”

     “When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.”

      ”Love is when mommy sees daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.”

      ”You never have to be lonely. There’s always somebody to love, even if it’s just a squirrel or a kitten.”

      ”You can break love, but it won’t die.”

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