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Few of us can hear quotations about love – some famous, some not – and not be moved by their intensity. We’ve gathered some of our favorites among the thousand to share with you.

“Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.”

-St. Augustine

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’ re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU… The one who turns to his friends and says, “That’s her…”

– Author Unknown

There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer;

no disease that enough love will not heal;

no door that enough love will not open;

no gulf that enough love will not bridge;

no wall that enough love will not throw down;

no sin that enough love will not redeem…

It makes no difference how deeply seated may be the trouble;

how hopeless the outlook; how muddled the tangle; how great the mistake.

A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.

If only you could love enough you would be

the happiest and most powerful being in the world…

- Emmet Fox

If these quotes don’t have you teary-eyed, check for a pulse. In the meantime, we’re getting up to get a box of tissue. There’s something in our eye.

As they say, ‘don’t make a mountain out of a mole hill’. But heartbreak feels like a huge mountain, doesn’t it? You can’t sleep. You can’t stop crying. You don’t want to eat or go to work or do anything. You just want your baby back! Well, let’s look at the reality of heartbreak and its best remedies and future prevention.

Although it isn’t talked about much because it’s considered unromantic, falling in love is mostly chemical. Heartbreak and heartache are so much more chemicals reacting in our bodies than devastation happening in our lives. We believe that our whole world will fall apart when we lose that special someone. Although this viewpoint is impractical – since there are 7 billion people on earth – it is nevertheless believed by so many. He’s the only one for me! I’ll never fall in love again! I can’t live without her! Poppycock!

Once you understand that that your hormones or brain chemistry has gone crazy, you can get a handle on the source of the feelings and realize that it’s not from missing that person, but an emotional reaction that is out of control. Oftentimes, people get it mixed up with practical problems like financial, loneliness or having to move or give up the cat. This is rarely the case with heart break as people that are heartbroken rarely care about practical matters. This makes it a life or death panic in the heart.

How to remedy it? It has been shown that chocolate actually helps. In fact, anything to get your mind off the constant feeling of depression and back to more normal things in life will help. Spend time with friends, do sports and sweat! Make plans for the future and do anything but visit your old places, listen to your old songs and tell your friends about who was right or wrong and what mistakes were made by whom. Keep him/her out of your mind and you’ll do better much faster.

The fastest cure besides truly understanding the chemical source of your feelings is to find someone to fill the gap. Out of the frying pan and into the fire they say. Life can be a rollercoaster for the romantics among us. And finally: what about prevention? The best prevention is to know yourself, your weaknesses, your dreams about that special person and the way the human brain works with the hormonal system. It may sound like a cold shower, but it’s the best way to avoid falling deep into that pit of depression again. Heartbreak is not necessary to a happy life or a successful love life. In fact, you’ll be much better off avoiding it completely.

If we all stick to the rules in the game of dating life would be smooth sailing rather than the battlefield of lies, deceptions, and betrayal. Men are man, but women often do the damage to themselves. Especially when they do not want to see through the signs or trust Mother Nature give to us all intuitions.

The top 10 reasons to not trust the man are simple. If we all adhere to the basic fundamentals of these helpful tips maybe less tears will be shed all over the world.

10. You know you can not trust a guy when all his friends know he has got a bit on the side or worst a long distant lover be it an emotional or physical relationship. It still spells disaster no matter how you look at it.

9. You cannot trust a guy when you have to resort to an entrapment pregnancy to hang onto him. I believe it soon after is called in the modern day language a “single mom”. Girls why would you think a man would want you with a child if they did not want you without a child. Some women if they are lucky end up with a daddy for their kid not a man for themselves.

8. You know you can not trust a guy when he never really claims you to the world, but instead your are running around claiming yourself much like someone who has the unfortunate position of being the last to know. It is double worrying if you have witnessed the woman before also running proclaiming their relationship when you knew from him they were over long before you came along. Definitely, not a good sign.

7. You want to be suspicious of a guy who at the start of your relationship suddenly piles on his work load making it so he has to be as many as 15 hours a day away from you. He is defiantly trying to put up some obvious barriers around himself there, especially when he does not need the money let say for instance.

6. When a guy wants instantly after the spit from another woman to be involved in the life of their x is sometimes ground to assume some signs are present. It is great when x’s can be friends, but when you have pursued the man and all he wants to do is work with his x-wife, his x-fiancé, and the woman he left his wife for and there is nothing you can do about it trust is to be questioned. Normally, it shows there is a lack of respect for your interests in the matter. Maybe, even some linger going on there.

5. A big sign that you cannot trust a man is when you never have “the discussion”. To be exact that would be an actual discussion in depth about being in a relationship together complete with future projections. Just shooting the breeze about how many kids one would like to have in a matter of factual manner is not the same thing as discussing the whole are we or we will be a couple. Some woman make the mistake of assuming a luring of the guy they are desperate for into bed instantly means they will be a couple. Hint ladies if a guy does not have the discussion within days maybe weeks of the one night stand than that was all it was. The risk of no discussion, but continued pursuits of the guy by you will only result in his taking as a friend. The dreaded friends zone women rarely make it back from.

4. While sex is discretionary when it comes to relationships, if you have sought to base your pursuit of a guy on sex and he refuses you with the exception of a one or two night stand a year later, really it would suggest a little time wasting on your part and clearly he is getting is emotional fill from somewhere else. Which is why there is not the physical interest in you. Woman who do not know, man are simple, but surprisingly when they are in love with a woman and that woman is not you they will be the most mystifying creatures on the earth.

3.You cannot trust a guy who is crazy in love with another woman. Come girls really is any man really worth your humiliation. This should be the big no no!

2. When he wants your kids and not you. This is especially important for single moms who want the guy so much, but in truth discover the guy just want their kids. This is very well depicted in the Gerry Maguire film starring Tom Cruise and Renee Zellwger. While a lesser woman would stoop so low as to maneuver the situation through the guys interest in her children even to the extent of convincing themselves that the affection for the children will somehow transfer from the guy to her. In real life that rarely happens and why put your kid through the emotional manipulation just because you can not land a guy.

1. When he leave his wife, but not for you. It is all and good well to fall in love, but when the matter involves wrecking a marriage. There can be the measure of waiting until a marriage naturally comes to an end. This is always best, because you know you will not be the rebound relationship. Secondly, a clear conscientious in knowing you had not shacked up with the guy before the divorce ink was dry. Worst mistake in this scenario is when you know or discover the guy did not leave his marriage for you, but instead has left the marriage for a woman he has been smitten with through out his now ended marriage. He will never be satisfied until he finally has that woman who by then he, of course, has made the only object of his desire.

These helpful tips should assist some woman with the navigation that is known in the world to us as the relationship. Ultimately, if you do not have self-respect you are going get the guy who will never respect you. He may hang with you, like your kids in some instances, but love never comes into it no matter how you try or throw yourself at him. Men are simple until women complicate things through avoidance of the realty. Nothing good come of refusals to accept things not being as fantasized it would be. What men are which does through off even the most astute of woman is unpredictable. When they love you too much like become like a deer in head lights, but when they do not love at all it really is time to turn towards greener pastures. There is always the fish and there is always the sea.

Which element of a breakup dictates recovery time more: the type of breakup, or the person you broke up with? My theory is the type of breakup you experience determines how long it takes to get over it more than the actual person.

Here are 7 different types of breakups ranked byshortest recovery time to longest recovery time:

7. The Mutual Breakup

This is as peaceful a breakup as you can have, like when the entire family agrees it’s time to pull the plug on grandpa’s respirator: he is freed of his misery, and the family feels a sense of relief. I’ve never had a mutual breakup. I can’t catch that lightning in a bottle. But it can’t be that tough to recover from a mutual breakup and get back out in the dating scene again.

6. The Circumstantial Breakup

A cousin of the mutual breakup, the circumstantial breakup occurs when the environment around you won’t permit the relationship to continue: my parents hate you, you’re in Cali and I’m in NY (or even, you’re one town over), I need to be single for a while, etc. Recovery time is shortened because the other person offers an excuse that takes the focus off your weaknesses or unattractive qualities that could have caused a breakup.

5. The Ultimatum Breakup

The most common ultimatum leading to a breakup is: “ask me to marry you within the next year of I’m out of here.” Other conflicts could cause ultimatums as well: change your religion, get rid of that stupid old car, etc. Ultimatum breakups can be tough to get over because it’s annoying that a little compromise could have prevented it. But once it’s over, that pressure from the stalemate you reached in the relationship is gone, so it’s quite a relief.

4. The Something Someone Said Breakup

My friend broke up with his girlfriend he was dating for years, and he mentioned a conversation that occurred shortly before they broke up. They were discussing wedding rings, and she asked how much he’d spend. He simply hasn’t studied the “market” so he threw a number out there: “I don’t know, $5,000.” She scoffed and said: “You should spend no less than $20,000.”

He told me after she said that, he couldn’t think of her the same way anymore. In fact, it put a figurative “X” over her image in his eyes. They eventually broke up, and this conversation was the springboard. This type of breakup is painful because you wish you could take something you said or did back.

3. The I’ve Been Cheating

Whether you find out from them or some other way, it’s the ultimate betrayal when they are cheating on you. You can get over it because you dismiss this person as a cheating jerk, but you still feel stupid and you might spend several months envisioning the cheating or trying to regain faith in the opposite gender.

2. The First Love Breakup

The First Love breakup is one of the toughest to overcome. Some say you never get over it. This breakup teaches us that the world is a bigger place than we thought. There are more people to meet, there are bills to pay, there are places to go. Things just can’t stay the same as they once were.

Mine hit me when I got to college and my girlfirend stayed behind in high school. Eventually, we had to move on. The first love breakup is hurts so much because you’ve never experienced this feeling of loss and disappointment before. And, it’s part of growing up and growing up is usually a painful process.

1. The Blind Side

My friend recently blind sided his ex. After she cried for an hour, he decided he had put in enough time and he left. This is traumatic because it comes out of nowhere. The blind sider may have been thinking about it for months, and they conceal their intentions, then drop the bomb while everything seems to be going well. In fact, the couple may have spent time together the night before, but the blind sider did so out of obligation.

Blind Sides chip away at your ability to trust. If someone can break up with you when things seem to be going so well, you’ll have a tough time avoiding paranoia and trusting your new partners.

I suppose that headline sounds a little harsh, but screw it. I got a point to make and, by god, I aims to make it.

We were talking specifically about romantic relationships, but I think this applies to any type of interpersonal relationships as well. Friends, family, whatever. Is it just luck? Timing? An aligning of the stars?Kismet?

I think that the root of the problem (or success) is that you get what you give. So, in other words, if you have a good positive attitude, then you will attract good positive people back to you. And conversely if you give out a lot of negativity, then you’ll get negativity back. And, by the way, I’m not talking about some kooky, mystical super power that causes this. I’m talking about things I see every day.

Think about it. How much time do you really want to spend around someone who’s moping around all of the time and talking about how terrible their life is? I’m guessing… not that much. But if you have a friend who’s always in a good mood and having a good time, and joking around, or whatever it is, then don’t you prefer their company? I know it sounds obvious, but it seems to go over a lot of heads. Especially when I hear someone complain about their significant other, or about not having a significant other in the first place.

Romantic relationships are pretty similar to any other type of relationship you could have, but people don’t often view it that way. They think they need to act differently around their husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend than they do around their friends, which is awfully strange if you think about it. You’re essentially creating a separate persona that you have to maintain every time that person is around. Who the hell wants to do that?

I’d imagine that leads to a lot of frustration in the long run, and most likely a break up or an unhappy situation. And then more negativity. And then more bad relationships. And so on. Some people live off of negativity. They’ll even cause things to go wrong intentionally (maybe without knowing it) so that they can have something to complain about. And feel justified in doing it, because who’s really going to tell you that you’re being a big cry baby when something bad just happened to you?

So it’s understandable when I see it in others, but also a little baffling. I don’t know how many times I’ve heard someone say something along the lines of, “I’m a magnet for jerks”, and then thought to myself, “Well, yeah, you probably are.”

Now, I’m not trying to tell you that you should never feel down. Of course you’re going to have those moments. I’m just saying don’t let them take over your life. And for the record, you’re much better off being single than in a bad relationship. You probably already knew that, but I felt like it needed to be said. Just in case.

The bottom line is, if you want a good, strong, healthy, positive relationship then you need to start by being positive yourself, and then seek out someone positive to be with. Don’t settle for less. You’ll get back what you give out.

It’s something that isn’t really talked about, but we know it’s true. There’s lingerie for every aspect of your life and phase of your relationships. After all, the lingerie you wear at the start of a love affair isn’t necessarily going to be what you wear when you’ve been together for five years and have a baby. And who hasn’t devoted a section of their underwear drawer to first-time-with-a-new-guy bra and panty sets?

We consulted with Jennifer Carroll, co-author of the new book, Underneath It All: A Girl’s Guide to Buying, Wearing, and Loving Lingerie ($11.16, Harlequin), to come up with a guide to lingerie that matches your relationship status. Whether you’re single, seriously involved or happily married, here are your options:

Single and Not Seeing Anyone Right Now
So what if no one else will see your underwear? “Dress for the love life you want, not the one you’ve got,” advises Carroll. Here are some simple pieces that you can wear on a solo night at home to make you feel more sensual and in touch with your feminine side without feeling ridiculous. Looks like this will give you an extra boost of confidence, “just in case you meet Mr. Right,” says Carroll.

From left: Jenna Leigh Maroma Deep Red Nightie ($125, jennaleighlingerie.com). Alfani Chemise, Back to Basics Modal ($7.99, macys.com). Kimchi Blue Polka Dot Slip ($48, urbanoutfitters.com)

Single and Dating
When you’re dating but not fully committed to someone, it’s a good idea to keep the more complicated items safe in your naughty drawer until things start getting serious. For the time being, stick with classy yet sexy separates. “Make sure your bra and panties match,” says Carroll. “Your date will appreciate the effort!” And in these styles, he’ll want to stick around to see what else you’ve got in your repertoire.

From left: Striped Ruffle Bra ($7, charlotterusse.com) and Polkadot Two-Tone Ruffle Boyshort Panties ($3.50, charlotterusse.com). Felina: Harlow Full Busted Demi Bra ($32, barenecessities.com) and Felina: Harlow Low Rise G-String ($14, barenecessities.com). Flirty Lace Balconette Bra in pink ($24, express.com)  and Flirty Lace String Thong in pink ($12.50, express.com)

In a Relationship
Now that you’ve found someone, it’s time to up the ante. If you’re in a relatively new relationship, don’t bother with complicated closures and ties because your guy won’t wait long enough to delicately take these pieces off of you. Instead, stick with pieces that are hotter than your average bra and panty set, but are just as easy to remove. Carroll likes the simple addition of a garter belt and stockings, too. “Add them to any bra and panty set to heat things up on date night,” she says.

From left: Brazilian Lace & Mesh Flyaway Babydoll ($32, fredericks.com). Leopard Babydoll Set ($21.95, yandy.com). Cut-Out Halter Babydoll ($35, victoriassecret.com)

Engaged
He proposed! Or you proposed! Either way, now’s the time to show your fiancé what he’s committed to for the rest of his life – and that’s you in all your sexy glory. Carroll says, “Engage him with the promise of things to come in bustiers, corsets and thigh-highs.” He will instantly know he’s made the right choice when he sees you in one of these scandalous little numbers.

From left: Love Red Love Basque ($370, agentprovocateur.com). Reversible Satin Corset with Dot Net Ruffle ($49.90, lingeriediva.com). Lace Garter Set ($42.99, yumdrop.com)

Married or Living Together
Sure, the honeymoon may be over, but that doesn’t mean you should retire your collection of negligees. The bedroom only gets boring if you let it, says Carroll. “Ditch the fun run T-shirt for sleeping and go for a silky chemise or gown. Also, invest in some lacy, racy bras and a fantasy outfit — like a naughty maid — for dress-up!”

From left: Farr West Lace Trim Full Slip ($80, nordstrom.com). Tickle Me Maid ($39.95, 3wishes.com). Gilda and Pearl Garbo Underwired Demi Bra ($43, figleaves.com)

Thank you Source: BettyConfidential.com, shine.yahoo.com

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     The love story is between two people. It’s a life partner. Some partners are loving and happy hopes fulfilled.

     But some partners together with the fall. Today, we love to see you how refreshing and happy you are…

     The view from the “sleep activities” which are activities that couples together the longest time. To see what kind of you and your lover.

     1. Fork & Spoon Poses

     A real happiness of your life. Which represents the squire’s your man. Shown that is your comfortable. Make couples closer together. Indicate a good time with your man take care of you feel. As you enter your spouse together in the first 3-5 years of marriage. 

     2. Honey Moon Sweet Poses     This is the real happiness of the couple. Both you and happy couples sleeping together facing one another soulfully. You may enter a sick players for both you and your sweetheart, but the patient is in bed for demonstrating. Love you both with each other. A period that sweet snap of wedlock during the first begin Loria Moon suites. Know that now. You and your sweetheart could not sleep this situation together. To try to return to sleep situation is with each other it is tinged love life is not bad ever.

     3. Snuggle Poses     The man is facing tilt to sleep and you lie facing each tilt. Found in the initial period of marriage, although not as sweet snap that other portals. However, indicate that care to protect man to offer you. While there is freedom in your own thoughts and decisions can have in life that you want.

     4. My Sweet Heart Poses

     You are fortunate to not be alone in the world. This world is happy with the love of two people. This one like Snuggle Poses but you and him more closely. Warmth of touch adjacent sent through closer together. You will be protected as well.

     A woman, 35, one story was that during her ill treatment of breast cancer that she felt disappointment, but her husband is waiting inside and she always encouraged by his hand and soothe her with a hug and sexual situation. This makes her feel good, encouraged to continue to fight.

     Although you can not sustain itself smack in the bed throughout the night but sleep and a good morning when you awake before you begin to burn. Both you and your sweetheart should return to bed clinch at least in this situation is instead set many words you want to say that love him or love her.

5. Lean forward 1 (Your Turn)

This poses indicates the body of your relatively good. You are very confident in themselves are relatively high and couples parties guide your life. Man is concerned about care of your oily look. And perhaps you could allow a person holding purse to was a fortunate of you.

     6. Have a Break Poses

     Your love life is not that sweet but not trite snap. Your relationships and couples are intimately well. Sometimes you may feel that you have good friends over. Both you and him are disclosed together. But both you and him are the same planet. Couples that love each other this long, although it is not noticeable any more.

     7. Lean forward 2 (His Turn)

     Your love life may be sweet but not much interruption. Couples have your personal world. Always look on something you do to those annoying, such as restaurants like the beauty of your couples tend to focus more work and sometimes you usually do not have time for you but you love your sweetheart and care more. The fix is your understanding and restraint your mind.

     8. Questions Poses (Have Problem)

     May be time to ask that question. “You still love him?, He still love you?” You and him may disagree or argue with each other about the nonsensical. A difficult time if both are the personal world. The simple fix you. “Change youy sleep poses “.

     9. Your Way My Way Poses

     You and they sleep the same bed, but hearts are not all the same bed together. You are your world, while he himself is his world, both you and your partner may be married, but the mesh is seen your comment and not understanding him out. May be the proper time to talk. At least they should remember the good times of family life.

     10. The Cliff Hanger Poses

     This image would not say much. May be last night both of you might drink too much!!!!

From: blog oknation.net.

-Orchid: Informant loves that. “I could not be forbidden to miss her.
-Jasmine: Chaste and gentle instead of meaning “she is the best I love most hallowed” or “high-class woman who is her elegance and respectability.
-Lilly: Instead of pure love mellow sensitive world. “She is my first love”.

Tulip: A headlong fall in love means. Love and temporarily reduce rapidly.

- Various colors Tulip in the same bouquet means. “Her beautiful eyes, makes me very mad.”
- Red Tulip “like the world to know that I love her.”
- Yellow Tulip “I am disappointed in love.”

Rose

-Pink Roses means elegance and urbanity.
-Yellow roses. “Please let me to be your paramour” “We adulterous spiritual” and means happy or cheer.
      -Orange roses to tell their brave and love is in the past.

-Red and white roses together in one bouquet. Meaning to know. “We are unified.”
-White roses say “I love her with a pure heart. Do not expect anything return “.

-Dark red roses (colors like red wine) instead of the word, “she is exceedingly beautiful.”
-Single Rose instead of meaning. “Although I love simplicity. But stability alone with her.

-Roses and leaves are budding and spine tells you that, “Although I will address some concerns. But know that she would not decline. ”
-Hybrid Roses blast that leaves left out. Shows that providers are all not be all things to be afraid.
-Hybrid Roses blast that left no burr. Demonstrated a very promising filled.
-Young red roses. Demonstrated that naive love. “I just love the girl. And naive “.
-Young white roses. Represents a captivating charm. Naive about love.

-Roses bloom of flowers and roses 2 blast not want that, “This is love that I hide it.”
-Blooming red roses tell you that “I love her to then”.
-Red roses and wax. He would let you know. “Our love was finished”.
-White roses instead of the wax and then the meaning “to charm her, and then reduce it”.
-Thornless roses to know that “she never lost the charm should flow even watch first.”