Top 10 Reasons to Not Trust a Guy
If we all stick to the rules in the game of dating life would be smooth sailing rather than the battlefield of lies, deceptions, and betrayal. Men are man, but women often do the damage to themselves. Especially when they do not want to see through the signs or trust Mother Nature give to us all intuitions.
The top 10 reasons to not trust the man are simple. If we all adhere to the basic fundamentals of these helpful tips maybe less tears will be shed all over the world.
10. You know you can not trust a guy when all his friends know he has got a bit on the side or worst a long distant lover be it an emotional or physical relationship. It still spells disaster no matter how you look at it.
9. You cannot trust a guy when you have to resort to an entrapment pregnancy to hang onto him. I believe it soon after is called in the modern day language a “single mom”. Girls why would you think a man would want you with a child if they did not want you without a child. Some women if they are lucky end up with a daddy for their kid not a man for themselves.
8. You know you can not trust a guy when he never really claims you to the world, but instead your are running around claiming yourself much like someone who has the unfortunate position of being the last to know. It is double worrying if you have witnessed the woman before also running proclaiming their relationship when you knew from him they were over long before you came along. Definitely, not a good sign.
7. You want to be suspicious of a guy who at the start of your relationship suddenly piles on his work load making it so he has to be as many as 15 hours a day away from you. He is defiantly trying to put up some obvious barriers around himself there, especially when he does not need the money let say for instance.
6. When a guy wants instantly after the spit from another woman to be involved in the life of their x is sometimes ground to assume some signs are present. It is great when x’s can be friends, but when you have pursued the man and all he wants to do is work with his x-wife, his x-fiancé, and the woman he left his wife for and there is nothing you can do about it trust is to be questioned. Normally, it shows there is a lack of respect for your interests in the matter. Maybe, even some linger going on there.
5. A big sign that you cannot trust a man is when you never have “the discussion”. To be exact that would be an actual discussion in depth about being in a relationship together complete with future projections. Just shooting the breeze about how many kids one would like to have in a matter of factual manner is not the same thing as discussing the whole are we or we will be a couple. Some woman make the mistake of assuming a luring of the guy they are desperate for into bed instantly means they will be a couple. Hint ladies if a guy does not have the discussion within days maybe weeks of the one night stand than that was all it was. The risk of no discussion, but continued pursuits of the guy by you will only result in his taking as a friend. The dreaded friends zone women rarely make it back from.
4. While sex is discretionary when it comes to relationships, if you have sought to base your pursuit of a guy on sex and he refuses you with the exception of a one or two night stand a year later, really it would suggest a little time wasting on your part and clearly he is getting is emotional fill from somewhere else. Which is why there is not the physical interest in you. Woman who do not know, man are simple, but surprisingly when they are in love with a woman and that woman is not you they will be the most mystifying creatures on the earth.
3.You cannot trust a guy who is crazy in love with another woman. Come girls really is any man really worth your humiliation. This should be the big no no!
2. When he wants your kids and not you. This is especially important for single moms who want the guy so much, but in truth discover the guy just want their kids. This is very well depicted in the Gerry Maguire film starring Tom Cruise and Renee Zellwger. While a lesser woman would stoop so low as to maneuver the situation through the guys interest in her children even to the extent of convincing themselves that the affection for the children will somehow transfer from the guy to her. In real life that rarely happens and why put your kid through the emotional manipulation just because you can not land a guy.
1. When he leave his wife, but not for you. It is all and good well to fall in love, but when the matter involves wrecking a marriage. There can be the measure of waiting until a marriage naturally comes to an end. This is always best, because you know you will not be the rebound relationship. Secondly, a clear conscientious in knowing you had not shacked up with the guy before the divorce ink was dry. Worst mistake in this scenario is when you know or discover the guy did not leave his marriage for you, but instead has left the marriage for a woman he has been smitten with through out his now ended marriage. He will never be satisfied until he finally has that woman who by then he, of course, has made the only object of his desire.
These helpful tips should assist some woman with the navigation that is known in the world to us as the relationship. Ultimately, if you do not have self-respect you are going get the guy who will never respect you. He may hang with you, like your kids in some instances, but love never comes into it no matter how you try or throw yourself at him. Men are simple until women complicate things through avoidance of the realty. Nothing good come of refusals to accept things not being as fantasized it would be. What men are which does through off even the most astute of woman is unpredictable. When they love you too much like become like a deer in head lights, but when they do not love at all it really is time to turn towards greener pastures. There is always the fish and there is always the sea.
I suppose that headline sounds a little harsh, but screw it. I got a point to make and, by god, I aims to make it.